Moving to a new city is as scary as it is exhilarating. Not only do you have new restaurants, venues, bars, and places to explore but you are also provided with a clean state to start your professional career. I’ve seen in many situations that it is easy to find many things to try in our new city, but it can be much more challenging to find people to experience those things with. Today, we are going to talk through some ways to help build a new posse.
1. Reach out to friends on social media.
Have a friend that previously lived in the city you are moving to? Are you Facebook friends with that guy you had that one class with your sophomore year? Don’t be afraid to reach out to people that you are connected with on social media. This is a prime opportunity to connect with mutual friends or loose connections that you already know. At the very worst, you can get some information and different places to try out.
2. Make an effort to get to know the people you work with.
The work-life balance can be tricky to manage. I’m not suggesting that you need to invite all of your Senior VPs out to a happy hour, but if there are other new hires starting when you do, they will be more likely to branch out as they will be in a similar boat as you. You can also join company kickball, softball, or fantasy football leagues or even start them if you are up for it.
3. Meetup.com.
Meetup.com is a website that allows you to join different interest groups that are based out of your city. Members can post events or “meet ups”. You can sign up for as many groups as you want and are notified when new events have been created for the group. Groups range from young professionals to outdoors advocates to volunteer enthusiasts.
4. Recreational sports teams.
Another way to meet people is by signing up for recreational leagues like kickball or volleyball. Many leagues will allow you to join as a “free agent” and place you on a team if you do not know enough people to create your own team. Most leagues also have different skill levels so even people who are not the most athletic can have fun!
5. Volunteer opportunities.
Similar to Meetup.com, you can find local volunteer opportunities at VolunteerMatch.com. This website allows you search for opportunities based on your interests. Volunteering is a great way to meet people because you are finding people who are passionate about the same causes as you.
6. Alumni chapters from your college or university.
Alumni chapters are a great way to connect with people. Larger schools will have watch parties for sporting events, but even if you went to a smaller university, networking opportunities and social events are definitely available to you.
Don’t be discouraged if it takes a little time to find your new group. Unlike college, meeting people in the professional setting can take a little longer to develop as you are no longer bounded by the same living area as others.Stick with it though! I’m sure you’ll find yourself among great people in no time. As always, if you have any other questions, comments, or feedback, leave a line! Go make mom proud!
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